Strong or Gentle?

shutterstock_94526518-cutStrong energy is best when you need to open someone's heart or get through to them. Gentle energy is best when someone's heart is already open and you want to connect with them.

When your child is being willful, strong energy is required to blast through the willfulness. Gentle energy is not penetrating enough to get through.

When your friend is open and vulnerable, gentle energy allows you to share with her while she is open. Here, strong energy only frightens and repels. And usually causes her to close her heart.

So usually being "passive" and weak, or "aggressive" and destructive, are not a problem with the energy itself- but in the application of the energy.

So it follows that it is essential to discern if someone's heart is open or not before you offer up your energy. And taking it step further, you can discern the energy that is best for the experience.

There is an art to offering the energy that resonates with her heart.

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