Self-Sabotage

shutterstock_92817850When our limiting self-beliefs conflict with what we seek, self-sabotage occurs. This is a common occurrence with human beings- it is not just something that happens to overtly self-destructive people. It is the way that we unconsciously push the things we week away from ourselves.

I suggest we view sabotage as an opportunity, rather than focusing on the down side.  The opportunity is that if we stop sabotaging ourselves- greater success, happiness, and abundance will naturally come to us.

Becoming aware of the ways you sabotage yourself is the key to stopping it. So you might ask yourself, "What are the things that go wrong when I am about to succeed at something?" I will provide a personal example that I am working with. I have been noticing that when I believe that things not happening in an area of my life, I tend to force things to happen. Later I find out that things were happening under the surface, but I was just not aware of it.  By forcing things, I sabotage the thing that is unfolding for me. My new push also distracts me from the thing I was unfolding- so I miss it when it comes to me.

Ceasing to sabotaging yourself is counter-intuitive. We are programmed to do more and make things happen. Ceasing to sabotage yourself is doing less. You are actually doing less to get more. A prime example of this is to cease pushing people away from yourself in order to have more love in your life.

So this spring, in addition to considering what more to do in order create the things you want in your life, perhaps you should also consider what to do less.

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