Get together

What if you get together up on Saturday morning with your significant other or friend and shared what each of you wanted to do this weekend. And then do some of those things together.

One of you may want to rake leaves, see a new movie that just released, and take their son to the park. The other may want to visit a friend in the hospital, shampoo their carpet, and delve into their new art project. You could each rank them in order of importance and then do those things together. Start with each of your number one thing that you wanted to do.

Work as a team to make that experience as rich as possible. Put your heads together to tag-team something that one of you has been putting off. Support one another to take a risk and try something new. Explore and enjoy those things together.

Intimacy requires exposure and discovery. You would both be able to expose and share part of your world with the other. Each of you would be able to allow another human being in on something that is really important to you. They could experience it with you. They would get to know and understand that part of you.

In turn, both of you would be able to discover part of your partner or friend's world. You would get to experience what is important to them and what life feels like to them. You would understand why that is important to them. You would get to share in something that they are excited about. You could feel something that they feel sad about.

You would have some shared experiences with each other. Nothing makes a relationship stronger.

And you would no longer feel like you are all alone. You now have a cohort in crime. A friend. A partner.

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